Why don't I chat/gossip as much as other girls? I mingle with everyone,

Manda10

New member
I blend like a chameleon! WHY? I was always like this in high school. But never realized this untill i was in college now im a professional and still seem to really talk to everyone..I've never really had a tight nitch of friends or conform to groups like others m but i'm not a loner either... I spread myself out thin socially, but don't chat it up or gossip half as much as the other ladies...I just talk a little bit to everyone..Why and does this seem ok?
 

adam

Active member
its just who you are, nothing wrong with that
some people will have 1 or 2 friends and talk there ear off, Im one of these people

some people will have loads of friends, gossip talk but really never say anything at all, these people are the ones who try to blend and fit in more, hence why they have more friends but there afraid to be themselves so they will never say anything important to them, they will normally just stick there nose in other peoples business

and some will just have a few friends but mainly keep themselves to themselves, I think your one of these :D don't worry, nothing wrong with it
don't try to be everyone else, just be yourself
 

Don

Member
Its because you are NOT a show off like the rest of them and you probably are more intelligent than most of them. People chat/gossip a lot because they're always trying to prove themselves and impress people. Its an ego thing. Trust me, i'm the same way as you and it is OK. You probably get more respect being the way you are ;-)
 
Top