Why is it that the most judgmental and bully-types can dish it out?

Julia

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but can't take it...aka, are also the most sensitive? I've heard from my coworker that two people at our workplace who are supervisors who are kind of mean, each had episodes that when confronted (sat down with) broke down in tears.

Same thing with my friend. She is very judgmental and harsh on others, but she cries if told by someone else that she is mean and hurtful (like her brother confronting her...she is so unrelenting on him and his alcoholism, thinking he just needs to stop...as if he could on his own willingness).

So, why can some people dish it out...very harshly...but they can't take it???
 
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