(im not gay) i have gay buddies, and they seem like kind, genuine people. I personally think marraige is about love, commitment, and dedication to your spouse, and not the fact of a man and a women. But am i missing something? and you are born gay , you can choose to accept it or not but you dont choose ur chromosome allignments and i just dont see whats wrong with gay marriage. And isnt there seperation of church and state?