We've been in a relationship for about 2 years. At the beginning of our relationship he couldnt keep his hands off of me, we would have sex 3-5 times a day if we could. As the months go by it got less and less. Basically we only have sex maybe once a week, if not once every 2 weeks. I usually can only finish if I'm on top then he gets on top and lasts only 5mins if that. I'll ask him every day if we're gonna have sex most of the time he'll say yes....but 99% of the time he'll just purposely forget about it or just go to bed. He used to initiate sex and now he never even thinks about it. Hes always giving me hugs and usually kisses me sometimes and acts like he wants to have sex but then just walks away and gets on his computer or something. I'll sometimes (well alot of the time) sit in front of him and try to rub on him down there and he'll get all mad and tell me to stop. I've gained alot of weight since he's moved in and Im always saying something like "i'm sure youd have sex with me if I was skinnier" and he gets pissed off saying thats not it. I think this is the problem thats making me really depressed and when I cry about anything he gets pissed and asks what im crying about. I'll say what im crying about (usually say not giving me sex, your yelling, your rude, etc) and he says so your crying about nothing. I asked him tonight what I did to make him not want to have sex with me anymore. i asked him what i've done to make us fight every night (we've had squabbles every night for the past month over stupid stuff that turn into huge fights...i end up sleeping on the couch). I don't know what else to do...I have lingerie that I've tried wearing...but he doesnt even look at me when i put them on or just tells me to put on clothes....
I don't know what else to do...its like he's bored with me? not attracted to me? I keep putting the blame of everyting on me and its making me depressed and irritable.
I'm 22 and he's 25 so it shouldnt be like this. He used to call me a nympho...but I cant be a nympho if I dont ever have sex. Any advice would be helpful. Spark the relationship, how to make him attracted to me again or something...
and btw.. he's been looking for an engagement ring for me lately... said to him the other day "I hope we have sex on our wedding night" and he got pissed at that too
I don't know what else to do...its like he's bored with me? not attracted to me? I keep putting the blame of everyting on me and its making me depressed and irritable.
I'm 22 and he's 25 so it shouldnt be like this. He used to call me a nympho...but I cant be a nympho if I dont ever have sex. Any advice would be helpful. Spark the relationship, how to make him attracted to me again or something...
and btw.. he's been looking for an engagement ring for me lately... said to him the other day "I hope we have sex on our wedding night" and he got pissed at that too