Why would my age be a barrier to converting to Judaism?

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I've approached the rabbi at a local Reform Synagogue twice about conversion. I am able to articulate why I would like to convert, which I personally feel should be enough to start. I know there is a tradition of turning away potential converts three times before accepting them, but I thought Reform Jews did not retain this tradition. Both times I have approached him, my rabbi has turned me away on account of my age (16.) Why does this impede my ability to make decisions about religion? Isn't 12 the minimum age for a female child to be held accountable for mitzvot, and thus for religion?

Please explain this to me.
 
If she's Jewish, yes. But if she's not, then her parents decide for her until she's 18. If you want to convert, take your parents with you next time.

Put yourself in the rabbi's place. He doesn't know if your parents are open to your choosing you own beliefs or if they're rabid anti-semites and extreme fundamentalist Christians. He might find Social Services and the police at his door, accusing him of corrupting you, turning you away from God, contributing to your delinquency. . . .
 
Have you started regularly attending Shabbat services? There is no age requirement for that, but if you are going to honor your parents you won't do it behind their backs.

If the rabbi sees you at services every week, he will know you are serious after several months.
 
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