izverycool
New member
In the next month or so I plan on joining a site like Match.com or eHarmony in hopes of finding a really good relationship with someone. I've never been in a relationship before, but I'm starting to feel like it's my #1 priority in life right now being age 20 soon turning 21. I've been on many free websites but I've come up dry so far. I wrote a lot of first messages, almost had no response to any of them. I've had very little first messages written to me by girls on the free sites. Will the girls on sites like Match.com or eHarmony write first? Or will I have to do like I had to do on the free sites, write a lot of first messages but get no responses? I would assume that Match.com or eHarmony would be more "serious" than the free sites since you have to pay to be on those.