My fiance really wants to us to have a threesome with another woman, but I'm totally against it because I've seen a few relationships ruined after participating in them. I've had a boyfriend cheat on me in the past and tell me to my face that he'd had better sex and this hurt me to no end. Since then, I've always been afraid that I've never been good enough or that my fiance will leave me for another girl. He's never given me reason to believe this because he is a true gentleman, but there are still doubts and fears in my own mind. I feel that if we had a threesome that I would feel inadequate or that he would enjoy sex with the other woman more than he does with me.
Another issue is that I strongly believe that sex (especially in marriage) is an intimate thing only to be shared between a husband and his wife. I know that seeing him with another woman would make me extremely jealous, even if I was also involved.
I'm strongly against his idea of a threesome because of how I would feel and I don't want to take any risks in our marriage. I've seen too many fail and I know that we have what it takes to beat the statistics, but I feel like this would put a real hindrance in our relationship.
Please tell me of your personal experiences and offer advice on how I should handle this.
Another issue is that I strongly believe that sex (especially in marriage) is an intimate thing only to be shared between a husband and his wife. I know that seeing him with another woman would make me extremely jealous, even if I was also involved.
I'm strongly against his idea of a threesome because of how I would feel and I don't want to take any risks in our marriage. I've seen too many fail and I know that we have what it takes to beat the statistics, but I feel like this would put a real hindrance in our relationship.
Please tell me of your personal experiences and offer advice on how I should handle this.