This girl broke up with me because she was afraid of getting too close to a guy, and then getting hurt because she got cheated on in the past. She's afraid of what her parents would do if they found out she was dating, but she's over 18.
I wouldn't even say that we were together oficially, as in "do you want to be my boyfriend" kinda stuff. But spending time with her was nice. We held hands and cuddled, and would say sweet things to each other. This lasted for about 4 months, and finally I asked her one last time if she wanted to be together and she agreed. But after a week it broke off because I felt like she was distant. I brought it up with her, and she broke it off. But it's hard for me to be friends with someone I have feelings for.
So after the breakup she would contact me on occasion, like once or twice a month just making small talk, or asking about school. Even recently we had a conversation on MSN and we talked like we used to and it was nice. But again... I can't be friends with her with the feelings i have.. so I later blocked her on facebook and deleted her from my msn. A few days after that she texted me, just asking if I still had my textbooks from a class we took together.. she probably wanted to get it sold for me..
I know I need to move on.. but another chance with her would be awesome.. But since she broke up with me I feel like she should come to me... I just don't know what to do... and it would be awkward to re-add her on facebook and stuff... I don't even know if I want to move on... I really just dont know what to do at all... it's been 4 months since our breakup and I still think about her..
I wouldn't even say that we were together oficially, as in "do you want to be my boyfriend" kinda stuff. But spending time with her was nice. We held hands and cuddled, and would say sweet things to each other. This lasted for about 4 months, and finally I asked her one last time if she wanted to be together and she agreed. But after a week it broke off because I felt like she was distant. I brought it up with her, and she broke it off. But it's hard for me to be friends with someone I have feelings for.
So after the breakup she would contact me on occasion, like once or twice a month just making small talk, or asking about school. Even recently we had a conversation on MSN and we talked like we used to and it was nice. But again... I can't be friends with her with the feelings i have.. so I later blocked her on facebook and deleted her from my msn. A few days after that she texted me, just asking if I still had my textbooks from a class we took together.. she probably wanted to get it sold for me..
I know I need to move on.. but another chance with her would be awesome.. But since she broke up with me I feel like she should come to me... I just don't know what to do... and it would be awkward to re-add her on facebook and stuff... I don't even know if I want to move on... I really just dont know what to do at all... it's been 4 months since our breakup and I still think about her..