...home not take you out? I started seeing a guy who is more interested in coming to my home then taking me out on a date. I knew him before we started seeing each other. I Got the impression he was lovely. Which he does seem. He works till night and he sends me texts after, asking to come to mines. by that time its usually between 9-11pm. He doesn't seem to offer a date or think that maybe we should go out and eat. It seems his only interest is to get into my pants without seeming like he is just out for sex.