XXX How do you deal with your sex life, if it's horrible?

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I've been with him for 3 years, we got engaged in May. In the beginning everything was GREAT in the bedroom.. best I ever had. The past 2 years he has "done his thing" in 10 minutes or less.. hardly ever do I get satisified. There isn't foreplay either!

He gets absolutely irritated when I don't want to do anything with him.. I just hate to do it. In the end I know I won't get satisfied and it will be a waste of my time and it'll frustrate me.

What should I do? What should "we" do? My male friend is telling me to call the wedding off.
 
get some pre-marital counseling to discuss these issues. perhaps the stress of the impending wedding is overwhelming him.

to revive your sex life, take control of your O. even if he is on top, you can still throw in a hand to stimulate yourself while he penetrates. this works best if you are on top, but it is still possible if he's on top. stop being passive during sex.

as far as leaving him over this, i would rethink that. sex often goes through cycles during a marriage. this is natural and normal as lifestyle and stress changes. adapt to your current situation and figure out what you can do to make it better.
 
what part do you mean?...the talking about it? or the thinking about it?......
 
First of all he probably gets to excited and cant seem to slow down and your not satisfy with this let him know this is no reason to call off a wedding if you love him and he loves you. sex is not all to marriage.
best of luck
 
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