...sexuality. She is now depressed.? She doesn't know what to do. I have never seen her so confused she remembers as a kid liking girls herself and in high school never wanted to go out with boys and when she did it wasn't so great. Problem is that she likes a girl now but they don't really connect. Anyways and she feels attracted to boys also. It's really hard for her to actually like someone and when she does she sees no distinction between male or female.
She just feels bad being perceived as bisexual because many people think that it's worse than being gay because they see it as just you liking sex from anything when in reality she is the most calmest, honest moral/ethical woman I have ever known.
I told her to not go by names such as gay bi or whatever, that she feels what she feels and there is nothing wrong with it because she is honest. To just live.
Yet her confusion remains...all she knows is what she feels.
She thinks that maybe she might be a lesbian but subconsciously is trying to avoid it by forcing herself to like guys although she has fallen in love with one. What does this sound like? What should she do? I am trying to help her as best as I can.
Being gay is against who's god? The same Christian god that wipes out women and children time and time again in the bible. She doesn't care for those types of gods. she only knows good
She just feels bad being perceived as bisexual because many people think that it's worse than being gay because they see it as just you liking sex from anything when in reality she is the most calmest, honest moral/ethical woman I have ever known.
I told her to not go by names such as gay bi or whatever, that she feels what she feels and there is nothing wrong with it because she is honest. To just live.
Yet her confusion remains...all she knows is what she feels.
She thinks that maybe she might be a lesbian but subconsciously is trying to avoid it by forcing herself to like guys although she has fallen in love with one. What does this sound like? What should she do? I am trying to help her as best as I can.
Being gay is against who's god? The same Christian god that wipes out women and children time and time again in the bible. She doesn't care for those types of gods. she only knows good