A question for Gays/Lez/& Bi's: Before you knew your sexuality, how was...

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...your experiences with the opposite sex? This is specifically for those of you who didn't already know your sexuality from early age, and took you time to figure it out. More specific about the question is:

How has your intimate experiences been with the opposite sex before you knew you were gay/etc? Was it easy for you to get a relationship with the opposite sex? Did people of the opposite sex usually find you attractive and approach you? Or did the opposite sex usually ignore you most of your upbringing?

Like for example, if you were a boy growing up, was it extremely difficult to find girls who would want to date you? Or if you were a girl, was it difficult for you to get guys to date and like you? Or was it all easy and you always had someone of the opposite sex crushing on you?

This is just a further conversation me and my friend was talking about, and thought I'd ask you all some input. Thanks.
 
All my experiences were...awkward. I usually got dates because I was intelligent enough to make a guy laugh and I actually listened to them when they talked.
But it was always so damn hard to make it work.
My first girlfriend made me realize what I had been doing wrong. I had been dating guys. With girls, it was so easy for me.
-Sam
 
Well, I slept with men while I experimented in heterosexuality. So, that's about as intimate as you can get, right? I was in the military as well, so it was pushed pretty hard to be straight. When I stopped fighting myself & accepted that I was gay, I still had to keep up the facade so I wouldn't get kicked out. At that point, I would date sporadically for appearances, but no more sex with men.

It was pretty easy to get into relationships with men. Even when I started my transition away from men, I still had a lot of guys interested in me. It got to the point after I had a few lesbian experiences under my belt to confirm my striaghtness was just a phase, I would still get hit on by straight men in gay clubs when I went out (even dressing all like a tomboy). This still continues to this day if I go out & actually dress to impress.
 
lol alice i just thumbed Tara J down didnt even notice that :) Oh and by the way Tara J said she was Bi in a previous answer.....

Anyway to answer your question, I always had guys coming on to me never had much of a problem there but I find it harder to find girls prob cause i live in Ireland and there's a drout of lesbians it seems lol :)

Edit alice: yeah she deserves a thumbs up for finally coming out of the closet lol :)
 
Well girls always said yes and had a lot of gf's but I just slowly realized I also liked guys
 
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