Am I abnormal? LOL I know i'm abnormal but... Is my situation weird?

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I don't like my ex, sure I care for him, i'd cry if something happened to him, and I love him because he is the father of my child but I don't like him, at the same time I adore and admire his new wife, I think she's a doll, very sweet woman and I forced my son to respectively call her Mom. (although it makes me jealous)

is that strange? all my friends and even people I see here that have exes usually hate their new wives, am I an oddity?

Also if your ex has a new wife what is she like? do you get along?
I believe that kids need to respect their parents and step-parents of coarse i'm his mother but I disagree he has 2 moms in my opinion. My personal feels should never get in the way and I made him call her mom out of respect.
 
Having a relationship end on amiable terms, particularly with the father of your child, is in my opinion, a good thing (provided there are good reasons for it).
Being able to see his second wife as a person instead of automatically hating her simply for existing, is also a good thing (provided there are good reasons for it).
"Forcing" your son to refer to his step-mother as "Mom" even when you feel bad about it? That… is not a good sign.
 
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