Am I antisocial or do people just not interest me?

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PJ1990

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I don't know what it is but I don't feel like I like people a whole lot. I mean I have people I talk to but I have a hard time making friendships because I don't like giving anything.

I notice I'm starting to like animals a lot more. I like dogs. I remember I always felt more sorry for animals dying than people. Like I feel bad when animals fight in the wild and kill each other because they don't know better.

I remember onetime I had a group of friends but it wasn't like I felt good being around them. I went to a guys house for a pool party and I remember thinking "I'm bored." Maybe it would have been better if there were girls there. It was just me and three guys. But I didn't hang out with them after that.

I notice I like people more when they're infants because infants don't judge people or screw others over.

I notice I have a hard time feeling sorry for people too like if they're having a problem.
 
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hopefully_baby2008

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It sounds to me like you are very selfish and you judge people too much as much as you judge yourself. Also you feel that nobody is good enough to be your friend because you think that once you have been "Screwed over once or twice or thrice, then everyone is automatically going to betray you or they will judge you or you just think people are uninteresting so you prefer to replace human companionship with an animal. It is true, children and animals wont judge you but you can't live in that forever. You have to get out in the world and find yourself and not worry so much about what other people do.
You say you can't feel sorry for people when they are having a problem, perhaps you feel like they are feeling sorry for themselves and want attention. Well in most cases yes, even when they don't realize it, yes they are feeling sorry for themselves. But you don't have to be involved in everyone's problems.
I don't think you are anti social I just think you are depressed. But you can get out of it, by resisting it. You can trust people, and you don't have to let them take advantage of you, because you have to learn from the past mistakes that you made when you let people in your life and they screwed you over. Forgive those people and move on so that you can live a more active life rather than hiding from everyone. Don't be afraid of human contact, put it this way, they are human not God!
I hope you get it together and live on truly happy. Good luck! :)) God Bless!
 
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Curiious_George

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wow you're just like me! you're normal dont worry. i mean yes i worry, so i shouldnt be a hypocrite.
when i worry about myself, its only a feeling, and it passes. after all, feelings are never forever, and they are based on emotions and not logic. if i start to think on logic instead of emotion, i realize that it doesnt matter if i am anti social or not. people are definitely interested in us! think of how many BILLIONS of people are on this earth. you really think not ONE would be interested? thats just illogical thinking. when i start to think about it, im better in smaller groups (one on one) once it gets to me and two others hanging out, it start to get a little more strange for me, but i can still cope. 3 is pushing it but i will last, but not for long. and 4 is impossible and i completely shut down. We are all good at something, some of us just arent social, so maybe if you are theres nothing wrong with that. but you ARE definitely interesting, i love animals and children too (younger the better) because of their innocence and trust. thats VERY interesting if you ask me =)
this part of your life will be over in the blink of an eye.. another chapter of your life will begin when you least expect it and you will look back and wonder why you even stopped to wonder about this, you will love yourself for you, and you wont worry or care anymore, you will just be happy doing whatever makes you happy =)
 
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Vlte

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You and I should be friends. Why is it that similar people with similar thoughts are so far away?
You're not alone, you're just different, and once you're older, you're going to do something better for this world, just like the rest of us.
 
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