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my ex wife and i have a schedule thru the court with our kids, it goes as follows
I pick the kids up from school at 3 o clock and keep them until 6 monday thru friday and have them 3 weekends a month.
but, the following schedule has in fact been ongoing.
I pick the kids up from school at 3 oclock and keep them until 8 monday thru friday (at the playground, library etc.) I live 45 minutes from town so I really cant take them back to my place during this time.and have had them with me every weekend since the first of february. when i approach my ex about me having a bit of free time for myself, she tries to make me feel guilty by telling me that if i don't want my kids she'll find a babysitter and i can pay for 1/2 of it. I don't want to fight with her. should i just keep on with 0 social life and enjoy my kids or should i put my foot down and have some adult time?
thank you all for the honest input! for the record my ex wife works part time and helps out with the girlscouts afternoons but her schedule seams to have changed a bit the last few months to later and later each week??. but has mornings and weekends to do as she pleases. she told me she works saturdays now, but saturday nights she's out with her new friend(a women)
it has crossed my mind that she doesn't want me to have e personal life, but we have been separated/divorced for over 2 years now.
GREEN THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME NOT WANTING TO PARENT, BUT EVERYTHING TO DO WITH MY CHILDRENS MOTHER NOT PARENTING WITH ME!! READ A LITTLE CLOSER!!!
I pick the kids up from school at 3 o clock and keep them until 6 monday thru friday and have them 3 weekends a month.
but, the following schedule has in fact been ongoing.
I pick the kids up from school at 3 oclock and keep them until 8 monday thru friday (at the playground, library etc.) I live 45 minutes from town so I really cant take them back to my place during this time.and have had them with me every weekend since the first of february. when i approach my ex about me having a bit of free time for myself, she tries to make me feel guilty by telling me that if i don't want my kids she'll find a babysitter and i can pay for 1/2 of it. I don't want to fight with her. should i just keep on with 0 social life and enjoy my kids or should i put my foot down and have some adult time?
thank you all for the honest input! for the record my ex wife works part time and helps out with the girlscouts afternoons but her schedule seams to have changed a bit the last few months to later and later each week??. but has mornings and weekends to do as she pleases. she told me she works saturdays now, but saturday nights she's out with her new friend(a women)
it has crossed my mind that she doesn't want me to have e personal life, but we have been separated/divorced for over 2 years now.
GREEN THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME NOT WANTING TO PARENT, BUT EVERYTHING TO DO WITH MY CHILDRENS MOTHER NOT PARENTING WITH ME!! READ A LITTLE CLOSER!!!