Angry about birthmother?

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When I was 4 months old my bio mom left me at my grandmothers home to be babysat, and didn't return, until I was 18. My grandparents died and she wasn't in the will and was upset. She called me a whore, like i had something to do with it, and left. About a week ago she sent my aunt, her sister a letter talking about how sorry she is and that she on her meds(she is bi polar) and how much she wanted to see me. I'm almost 25 and am married, I have a baby and a life, and I'm angry! Everyone says I need to forgive, which I have done, I will never forget and I'm not going to be her bff just cause she decided to get her shit together. excuse my language, im upset. Oh, and then has nerve to ask for some of my grandmothers things. I personally think that's all she wanted, not to see me and her sister. sorry for rambling, im angry. Am I acting immaturely? Or do I have every right to be angry?

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Yes you have a right to be angry. She wasn't in your life for 18 years. Which was probably a good thing because she sounds very unstable.
 
She only wants attention, not forgiveness and she doesn't want to be a part of your life. Tell her to f-off.
 
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