Kamyrns_Mommy
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- May 14, 2008
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all i do anymore BUT I CAN NOT....... All I want to do anymore is complain to someone about my in-laws and how crazy they drive me, and NO one will listen to me. My mom understands my MIL point of view because my mom has a son younder then me, so shell probably be the same she says. Obviously my hubby dosnt want to hear it, and my BF is on Vaca in Costa Rica!!! So if you dont want to read my soon to be VERY long question wrapped in a vent, hit the back button NOW!!!
My SIL is a MORON!!! She chooses NOT to take care of her son, because she wanted a girl. Like are you kidding me; this kid is 2 1/2 and she still hasnt gotten over it, HELLO!!! Now she wants another so she can get a girl, Dumb A** its only a half a chance itll be a girl. And her son just got diagnosed with a speech and cognitive delay. And he may be color blinde, they want to try his speech more before they test him since he still dosnt know colors...
You know why he now has developed a rather serious delay, because when I told them to test him and get him help a FULL year ago; they said he didnt need it, and that he was choosing "not" to learn what I was trying to teach him. They only got him tested because I forced my MIL into it, and made her promise me and my hubby 6 months ago that if he didnt have a 10 word vocab by now that she had to take him with my SIL. My SIL can not make a decision regarding her son probably if his life depended on it. She relys on my MIL for EVERYTHING. And although my MIL acts like she hates it she is the worst enabler EVERY!!!
Both of them take advantage of EVERYONE, mostly because of my MIL's influence on her. My very good friend does a small daycare in her home where my daughter goes a few hours a week, just for socialization really. Anyway I had mentioned about how my SIL needed someone to watch her son while she worked and my friend was generous to offer for him to go there at a discount, even though she has never met my in-laws or their son. Well she was charging her $15 a day for a unpotty trained 2 year old, and she charged the other boy like him $25 a day. She asked to be paid the first day that your child was there each week, well my SIL thought that since she didnt get paid until Friday that she was allowed to not pay her until the end of the week. She also would never pick him up on time. Well my friend then changed his rate to the full amount since she never got paid on time, adn watched him extra. Ever since then my MIL has done nothing but bad nouth her and her hubby whome we are Best friends
My SIL is a MORON!!! She chooses NOT to take care of her son, because she wanted a girl. Like are you kidding me; this kid is 2 1/2 and she still hasnt gotten over it, HELLO!!! Now she wants another so she can get a girl, Dumb A** its only a half a chance itll be a girl. And her son just got diagnosed with a speech and cognitive delay. And he may be color blinde, they want to try his speech more before they test him since he still dosnt know colors...
You know why he now has developed a rather serious delay, because when I told them to test him and get him help a FULL year ago; they said he didnt need it, and that he was choosing "not" to learn what I was trying to teach him. They only got him tested because I forced my MIL into it, and made her promise me and my hubby 6 months ago that if he didnt have a 10 word vocab by now that she had to take him with my SIL. My SIL can not make a decision regarding her son probably if his life depended on it. She relys on my MIL for EVERYTHING. And although my MIL acts like she hates it she is the worst enabler EVERY!!!
Both of them take advantage of EVERYONE, mostly because of my MIL's influence on her. My very good friend does a small daycare in her home where my daughter goes a few hours a week, just for socialization really. Anyway I had mentioned about how my SIL needed someone to watch her son while she worked and my friend was generous to offer for him to go there at a discount, even though she has never met my in-laws or their son. Well she was charging her $15 a day for a unpotty trained 2 year old, and she charged the other boy like him $25 a day. She asked to be paid the first day that your child was there each week, well my SIL thought that since she didnt get paid until Friday that she was allowed to not pay her until the end of the week. She also would never pick him up on time. Well my friend then changed his rate to the full amount since she never got paid on time, adn watched him extra. Ever since then my MIL has done nothing but bad nouth her and her hubby whome we are Best friends