Are my friends laughing at me behind closed doors?

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I hate confronting, it always leads to arguing. But the other day someone said "he" to me and someone corrected them... and one of my friends started laughing. But when I first told them they said it was okay with them but now I'm not so sure...

I'm trans btw
 
as my mother used to say "if they're laughing at you they're leaving some other poor person alone!" so let them laugh it up. they're just confused and scared of the unknown so they laugh. they care about you it's just that they are being forced by society to see you as a freak when they know that gender is fluid! educate them, be yourself the person they know and love. proove to them that they can laugh all they want and you'll still survive and even forgive them. you don't have to let them hurt you though. it's good of you to confront them but after a couple chats let it go and move onward and upward! it's a hard road you've chosen and all trans people know that. in due time they'll stop laughing and see you for the person you are!
 
I would expect them to deal with it the best way they can and gently correct them when you get your feelings hurt. It will happen, you can do it...Good Luck
 
There just not used to the company or a trans person.... Say to them, "i'm trans? your str8? get on with life mate..."
Good Luck
 
They are just letting peer pressure overpower common sense and decency. Unless they are a very close friend, I would stop talking to them all together. Then, when they ask why you are no longer talking with them, just act nonchalent about it. Or, you could then take the opportunity to confront them and say you believe they are two faced. If they are a close friend and you don't want to lose that friendship, I would have a heart to heart conversation with them and explain to them how hard it is for you to believe people are mocking you behind your back. Tell them how important it is to you to have close trusting friends, and ask them to be honest with you.
 
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