I am13but most of my friends are in highschool---they get into unhealthy situations with the opposite sex all of the time--they have all slept with more than one person each (at different times DUH!)---I am almost always hang around them and I no alot more about alcohol and sex than I should---I definatly do not plan on being influenced by my friends to make incorrect decions--but do you think that I will eventually? What are the chances?and I have made it to third base but I don't plan on going farther for a while---and even if I don't decide to be sexually active (I AM a virgin) do you think rumors will start flying that I am anyways just because I am surrounded with people like this? What should I do about these kinds of rumors if they do start?