are there any nice, interesting girls on this planet?

[TheRealNatural]

this is something ive always wondered about cause throughout my 21 years of living ive never really found even 1 nice, interesting girls. the ones which are pretty on the outside are extremely ugly on the inside, im sure everyone knows wot theyre like.
the other kinds of girls are usually not so pretty on the outside.. but theyre also not that pretty on the inside. theyre shy, boring, not very outgoing. im not perfect either.. but i know myself to be a fun and interesting guy
ive been looking for a nice, interesting girl who wants to have fun for years. and i dont mean sexual fun. i mean someone to go out with as friend, talk to, be romantic with or even someone to cuddle with at night watching a movie. it seems there are no girls like this. ive seen some movies before and u see that perfect girl.. shes kind, sweet, she doesnt judge. she just wants u to take her away to a place shes never been before, she wants u to amaze and excite her. and i possess all of the qualities to do this for that nice, interesting girl. the only problem is.. this girl doesnt seem to exist
the world is full of girls who either want u for ur face, body, money, car, big house... there are no girls that want u for u. they dont even care who U are
girls might argue and say guys are the same. but i disagree.. cause i know im a genuine exception

 

[Ophelia]

Well, if this reassures you any, I have never been attracted to a guy because of his money, status, or appearance. My friends think I'm crazy. I always fall for the nerdy unattractive guys. I dunno why, looks just don't seem to be a huge factor in why I like the guys I like. Personality is definitely number one.

I'm sorry you haven't found the girl you're looking for. I'm sure you will run into one eventually, they are out there, I assure you. Maybe you are being to picky, expand your horizons a bit maybe? Maybe you won't find the girl from the movies, but I know several girls who fit the description you mentioned, so I know there are some out there. Try looking in different places. Often certain types of people tend to gravitate toward certain areas. I hate to stereotype, but the cheerleaders at my high school were a prime example of this. They were all mean and stuck up, to me at least. Perhaps you need to look for girls in new places. Hope this helps, good luck

 

[ashy]

i have that same problem with guys, i asked my last bf for a hug (we were at his house alone) and them he pulled out a condom... obviously we're not together anymore but to me all guys are like that, i think im pretty, everyone is in someways, people say im "emo" but when im around friends i sing and dance and never shut up or stop laughing... then i get into class and id rather be dead then sit next to mr varsity football quarterback x_X the thing is... people change a lot over time. I been through a lot and it made me a way better person. I know people who used to be selfish and bitchy and then they ended up in the hospital with 2 broken legs because they were with t he cool guys getting drunk, now they understand life isnt a game, you'll find someone, it takes time. <33

 

[HadEnough1]

I'm sorry you feel that way but I kinda know what you mean...where are you looking for these girls? Do you mean at school and at Uni. or work, you haven't met a girl who is sweet and kind and cares about what really matters, instead of the shallow stuff? That's sad...I think you have your head screwed on real well by the sounds of things and you have your priorities straight, you're not just looking for some booty! Where have you been looking? Would you mind if the girl is a bit on the quiet side? Every girl has an adventurous side but you might find the ones who have this depth you're after need to be drawn out of their shells a bit. A bit of persistence maybe, as long as you make a girl feel valued, and feel that you are emotionally safe for her to be with, you might find all those deeper qualities you're looking for plus the fun side.

Honestly at that age, unless the girl is looking to marry soon, she probably wouldn't care too much about how much money a guy makes, that's the kind of thing an older man should care to show he is responsible about - I don't mean he must be rich, he just should have a decent job so he can provide or help provide for a family one day. True a lot of girls, especially at your age, are far too influenced by their peers and the media constantly telling us we are nothing without a handsome face, body, loads of money, the right address etc. etc. Trust me when you get to my age, you realise how tedious and silly all that is. Like you said, it's what's on the inside that counts the most. Keep being the great guy you sound like you are and you will definitely meet the girl for you, who loves you for WHO you are, not what you can do for her! There ARE mature girls out there who would love a guy like you as a bf...don't give up, it will come good!