at what age is it ok for my adopted son to be introduced to my gay lifestlye?

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WhosssMothere

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Well i dont have a son yet , but I plan on adopting a baby. But thing is gay, and I dont know how to introduce that to him.
I dont wanna keep him in the dark , but I dont wanna spring it on him at the age of 10 he's just confused.
I dont know when its approaite for him to see me with a man
I dont even know at what age I should tell him hes adopted ?

please help?
 
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Raquel

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Like Kevin said, just tell him when he's young that he has two dads instead of a mom and a dad when he's young. Make it about him, not you. Tell him more as he gets older, like you would tell children about any straight couple.
Go from saying "you have two dads" to "a lot of men fall in love with women, but some men fall in love with other men." You don't have to make it confusing. Kids' minds are pretty simple.
 
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Kevin

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If I were to adopt sometime in my life time, I would make sure that the kid understood the whole situation, that he was adopted and that I were spending my life with another guy. I would just tell him that he has 2 daddies instead of a mommy and a daddy so he could understand better. It's best to tell him at a young age that way he can become more open minded earlier.
 
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PaynforPlexure

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"Gay Lifestyle" Honestly, We live just like everyone else but we like the same-sex. It's not a lifestyle!

I don't get out of my gay bed, go to my gay bathroom, take my gay shower, hop in my gay clothes and go to the Gay Agenda meeting to plot the take over of the world!
 
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