attracted but not interested?

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Alli

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I've been chatting for a few months to a guy online we have seen each other on webcam, by nature I'm a flirty personality which he has said turns him on and he likes getting turned on yet he complains when I turn him on, but turned around and said I was frigid when I wouldn't turn him on, he keeps giving mixed signals he wants to get intimate but he doesn't want to get intimate, it's confusing me yet he complains I give mixed signals!

He admitted yesterday that he is very physically attracted to me and wanted to know my attraction to him and I told him, but then he didn't seem interested that it was reciprocated
has anyone else been in this position as I really don't know how to handle this dude
Apple, be reciprocated I meant that I feel a strong attraction to him too
confused? how could he be confused, says he's not interested when he most obviously is!
he keeps making sexual advances but doesn't want to meet I'm confused
Vanessa he is the one that seems not interested
 
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Applehunter

New member
It means he wants to go further than just being turned on and it drives him crazy when you flirt with him.

Also, i am somewhat intrigued by what you consider to be reciprocation, considering you flirt so much.

edit; oh wait, this was internetz?

no freakin' wonder babe. He was probably annoyed he couldn't take you right then and there.
 
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charl1

New member
Im thinking he's either very nervous about having a relationship or he's just a hormonal monster that can't make up his mind.

I remember when I had my first girlfriend I was so nervous about kissing her for no reason >.<
 
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