Awkward hug with my friend? Do you think that this was on purpose, or was she just

[ThatSleepingPanda™]

joking around? Today, it was really cold outside. She was really cold but I wasn't and just had a short sleeves t-shirt on. I was talking to one of my friends and she came up from behind and hugged me and like put her head on my should and like one of her hands hugging me, while the other was like trying to go inside my shirt. Do you think she did that by accident and was just joking around, or she did it on purpose? It felt weird and my friend (who was a boy) got weirded out because my friend and I are both girls.

 

[BK]

Talk to her, but don't be like "that was all weird and stuff." Try, "you got me with a backwards hug there the other day, were you lookin' for something in my shirt?" and see what happens. It's not always about sex when two girls hug or hold hands. In some cultures it's very common. I guess girls are just more nurturing.

 

[Amber]

That is really weird maybe you should just talk to her about it