Basically my whole school found out that I'm bisexual?

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been there, done it.
i told a close "friend" too and...you know the story.
well basically they will start looking at you and then start this stupid little laugh but it gets better after a coiuple of weeks or so. there's always something new going on at schools. eventually they will find a new scandal and leave you alone, although they will always give you that weird look.
and honey trust me if i survived high school in a tiny town in greece (aka the middle of nowere) you can too.
find courage and strength and try to find your self confidence. if you know who you are, they can't touch you.
all the best
 
Well I told a few close 'friends' and now it's gotten around most of the school. I'm really scared to go back now in case some of them hate me, hit me or think the wrong things about me. I've got a week half term off now. My mum said I could move schools if it is really bad but I doubt she will really let me. I'm so worried. I do not know what to do. Some people who know say that they are 'fine with it and others shouldn't judge me.' Someone even said that it's good I can be so honest about it. But I'm still dreading going back there. What am I supposed to do for physical education in the changing rooms, The other girls may think I'm looking at them or I fancy them or I'm disgusting. I know I shouldn't care what people think, But this is school, it's how it works.

Can anyone help me please?
 
good, now you can focus on your studies and not be worried about fitting in and peer pressure and getting yourself into trouble. If i had to go back to school again i might say i was gay or bisexual so i could focus on my school and realize that hanging out with friends and trying to be cool wasnt important. In other words who gives a rats ass about what people think people think drinking and driving is bad. But they still do it or have done it.
 
If anyone gives you a hard time, just ignore them and get on with life. Dont give a sh!t what other people think of you, there will be some people who probably wont accept that your bi, but there are people like that everywhere - and there probably always will be.
Just hangout with your friends, and all of the other people should realise that theres nothing wrong with you being bi and they can forget about it. Remember to be strong and dont let what people say bring you down, if people see that you dont care what they say and they arent going to be able to hurt you, then they will stop and go and pick on somebody else :)
 
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