anyone else here get completely burned up when they hear that bi people can't make up their own minds, that we need to just pick a gender and get on with it? i feel that being bi gives me a special ability to love whoever i want to love, without the restriction of gender. i just get SOOOOOOO raving seeing-red outraged, when i hear someone belittle my lack of boundaries with "there's no such thing as bi, you just need to make up your mind and pick one." i'm trying to figure out why i get so mad. anyone else?