Bluetooth??? Help please!?

[BrideToBe*5-17-08]

I have a samsung blackjack and have sent and recieved a ton of ringtones and files. My friend has a new Blackberry Pearl. We can cannont to each other, and then it asks for a passcode (both phones) How do we know the passcode (or passkey)?? We've tried 0000, 1111 Which is what my code was on previous phones.
Anybody have a clue??
Thanks in advance!!

 

[unknown]

Should tell ya in the manuel

 

[chloelvr55]

idk, maybe mine's different bnut i connected my phone with my friends by first i type in a passcode then he types in the same passcode