brighterthansunshine
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I have been with my bf for over 2 years now and I was very much in love. . The other night we had a discussion that was completely opposite from what my understanding so far. We had everything planned out and even joked about marriage and children. I told him that I would want to marry young (24 or 25) and have a family by 27. In front of his cousin, he says he was thinking around 30. For some reason I got really turned off from it and started to have 2nd thoughts.. maybe take a break. Another factor that could have made me lose more interest is that I am very much interested in my current boss who just happened to visit me at my other work the other day and we chatted for hours and laughed and flirted. It made me feel so good inside. I blushed but it didn't matter. My boss happens to be about 5-6 years(25 or 26) older than I am. He has his own house, he has his own car, and he pretty much has it set up for him. I don't exactly know if my boss is interested in me (because I never really saw any other signs), but I really am interested in him or something like him (my bf is a few months younger than me). To me, it seems like he can provide for me and he might just be ready to settle down (soon...not right now) and I don't know why but that attracts me. Lately, I have this gut feeling in my heart that I want to take a break from my bf for personal reasons (like trying to find myself) but I cant seem to do it. I don't really understand what it is I want or why I have this feeling. Any opinions, thoughts, or suggestions? Is this a phase? my bf is an awesome guy, there is not a lot that he has done wrong for me to leave him and I know I will regret it if I do. Is this a phase? should I just let it pass and keep it inside me and not say anything?