That seems like a precursor to a 16 year old's confession. But, I'm 23. I am a full grown, adult woman, in charge of myself. I really love my boyfriend. I know we're going to be married. He is 21, living at home, from a very Christian family. His mom took him out to lunch a few days ago and asked him if everything was 'sexually appropriate' between us. He told her everything (we've only had sex maybe 4 times). I am so angry. I feel that it is none of her business, considering our age. But she has a lot of power in her house. I feel violated. She says she's 'not mad', as if it's her place. I don't know why, it's irrational, but all this has hurt me (I had an excellent relationship with him and then up til this) and makes me feel like a little kid (I am 2,000 miles from home and feel very vulnerable). I have not been able to go over to his house for a couple days because of my anger. How do I handle this? Breaking up isn't an option - please nothing stupid like that. I know he's a momma's boy, she is kinda intense though. I just wish he would've told her to back off - that's more my personality.