I just want oppinions. My now ex boyfriend of a week and I were together for 5 years and planning on moving in together this summer and getting engaged. Suddenly, litteraly the week before we go to look for apartments he says he feels "trapped" and is freaking out and doesn't know. He says he loves me and always will, wanted me to keep all our stuff and he'd keep mine, he even said he thought we'd be together in the future ( I don't know now though). He said he just needed space and wanted to test how he felt becuase we've been together so young and so long (I'm 20 and he's 23). I was hurt and said on facebook I was getting asked out by other guys already (I was, but don't want to see them) so apparently he went out with a girl this weekend. He said it felt different, but he kind of wants to get to know her, but doesn't know what he's going to do and that he loves me. He says he's confused still and doesn't know what to do. He still seemed really mad about me seeing other guys. He also had told me earlier in the week not to move on. He agreed at the begining of this (we both did) that if anything physical happened with anyone else, we'd be done done. It's very weird and I'm heartbroken and still love him. I either get told he's a creep and planned the whole thing or that he's just really confused and has cold feet. As much as I'm upset, I wish he'd come back. I've decided to completely not talk to him for a while to see what he does. Help?
Also...I'm on his phone plan. He pays for my phone. I've been insistant on giving it back and getting on my brother's and always says no or ignores it.
Also...I'm on his phone plan. He pays for my phone. I've been insistant on giving it back and getting on my brother's and always says no or ignores it.