Yes. The definition of virgin is one who is unmarried, or who has not had sexual intercourse. And I think you should go to a sex store and buy them a legit toy. If not, you may not want to touch or eat anything in her house that can fit into a vagina.
You are still a virgin until you have intercourse with a member of the opposite sex. However about the random objects, It isn't the safest idea to use those. If your friend REALLY wanted to use a cucumber make sure she puts a condom on it. It would be best to go out and buy toys as they are the safer way.
ok, first of all, your bff should not be inserting anything into her pussy that isn't meant for vaginal penetration...I watched a show called 1000 ways to die, and in this one episode, this girl is masturbating with a shaved carrot...She tore her vaginal walls and bled to death...If she is that desperate, be a friend, and tell her that there are safer methods to masturbating...Go with her to an adult store, and don't be shy to ask for some assistance...They won't laugh at you or say "ew gross"...It's their job to help people, and if you are shy too, let her ask the questions...But stick to the plastic dildos, and if she is just looking to get her clitoris off, then tell her to buy a "bullet". It is a battery operated tiny oval shaped vibrator just for clitoral stimulation...So, if you don't want your friend to masturbate to death, lead her in the right direction.....