Can a guy be so shy to not meet u, even though he really likes u?

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ficola83

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I was planning to send him a msg on facebook to meet somewhere at school, how likely is not going to show up because he is too shy or whatever?

we talked a little like 7 months ago, now he's been showing me that he likes me a lot but he shys away the last minute when hes about to approach me, we see each other every day, but its hard to make a move cuz were both shy, and i just want to do something about it.
 
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dimepeacee

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overcome your shyness, that's one way to go at it, it's either you or him that has to make a move, otherwise 1 of you will regret not doing so. saying "what if's" ain't a good feelin' so just snap outta your shyness and make a move girl, if you really like him! nothin to lose :]
 
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girllee

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very very possible
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvQt8kB9rJ5MaQ0DqdTFz4fsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091127231845AA6niOp
 
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AndrewG

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nothing is going to happen if you both keep shying away, take the initiative and make the move. If he really likes you he wont shy away when you make the first move
 
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mm£Dm®mßlm2LoveAgainm

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Yes, shy guys needs a girl that will step up and ask him themselves. Message him and if he really like you he will say yes or worst scenario, 'I dont know.' If he says no, so what he dosen't sound like someone that will go to school yelling it. What have you got to loose?

I like a guy and it's been over a year started since the begining of freshman year. But a year later he switches schools. Now the second year begun Sophmore which was without him. I don't think I'll ever get over him. Since we were both shy no one stepped up. He was the kind of guy that noticed stuff like how I was annoyed I'd roll my eyes or how I'd click my pen. I know he has moved on but at the same time I dont think so. I've tried so hard but I can't force it anymore. Please dont make the same mistake I did. =[

Message me if you have anymore questions :)
 
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RachelB

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I don't think he would say he would meet you and then stand you up because he's too shy.
If he's too shy he will probably just make up an excuse not to see you.
Maybe talk on the phone for a while before meeting face to face?
I found that helped me and my boyfriend when we first got together.
 
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AJAraiza

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Approach him, like at lunch. Go sit at his table, try talking to him more and more. I've realized that a lot of my friends have done this, where they have texted a boy/girl and then they eventually want to hang out, then change plans all of the sudden. Try to confront him, talk on the phone possible. Texting or messaging someone isn't the best way of communication.
 
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ISwitaYoutwite

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yeah
i think low self esteem/ maybe he have body odor or some sort of things..
maybe he is afraid to get seen by friends coz he might be teased or some other stuffs.

goodluck !
 
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monkeyman

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Its possible but VERY VERY unlikely.

If he likes you as much as you say he does he would'nt ever pass up a chancwe to hang with you. Next time you see him trying to approach you, try advancinge closer to him before he shys away =] iam sure once he knows that you like him he will have no reservations on asking you out. i know thats how i am.
 
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SexyBeast1

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I think he is scared..You should talk to him and tell him its ok to be scared but ur not just gonna wait around forvever..well u moight but i owuldnt suggest it! if u know waht im saying..but uhh yeah keep it up getAs I liek pickles ketchupis yummmy!!!!! breasad bread is dead
 
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trigger

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yeah i was real shy to meet a girl but then i met her someday and we went out..we're still together now..bt too answer your question YES a guy can by too shy to meet you in person
 
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daniel

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haha yea, think beforehand of something that you guys can talk about or invite him to get some ice cream or something.
 
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