person to your parents and family? I am very emabarrased by my family, my dad is an overcontrolling overopinionated jerk and my mom is an achingly average doofus. My brothers I really never see so they're not an issue, my uncles and cousins are mostly a bunch of idiots, obnoxious jerks, and rednecks, 9/10 of each of them fit at least one of those three qualities, most fit two but there are even more which fit all three. Basically if I wound up with someone for a long term relationship I would go out of my way to keep them from meeting my parents, even if I had to lie and say they were dead or chronically insane or something.