So my girl friend told me she has genital herpes. How can I be intimate with her and not catch it? Does a condom do enough? What causes the herpes to be spread contact with the sores only or can the vaginal fluid contact cause the spread of herpes too. Is it really risky to have sex with a condom with her because the condom doesn't cover the entire penis? Can it infect my testes by contact during sex? What is the safest way to have sex with her and be intimate while at the same time decreasing the odds from catching it...