Can I flat out ask her if she's no longer interested?

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TlMac

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I met this really cute girl and we went out on 1 date. Everything went really well and we agreed to see each other again. A few days later I ask her on a second date and she accepts, telling me that it sounds "amazing!"

Long story short, she ended up needing to reschedule the 2nd date. She apologized and said she'd make it up to me next week. After a week, I text her and after some back and forth, I asked if she was still game for the 2nd date... I never heard back from her last night.

Not sure if she's playing games, testing me, or just no longer interested? What's the best way to go about finding out what her deal is?
 
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dkharmony2002

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Just let it go- if she is interested she knows how to reach you. You don't want to seem desperate because that is a turn-off to her, and besides it isn't good for your self-esteem. You could be exploring other options.
 
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Amber

Member
well its true that if the girl really liked you, she could still have feelings for you and when you ask her out she would get all the feelings back, ask her out and see what she says :)
 
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MorganT

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maybe something happened to her phone or something, I mean anything could be possible, even her not being interested in you. Dont keep hounding her (calling her everyday) but I would still let her know that youre interested (by calling once more and leaving a message) If she doesnt respond to that either then let it go and move on to someone less flaky
 
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Patrick

Member
i agree with hannah and maybe she likes you but is busy. it sounds like she wants to make the time to go out with you so that's a good sigh. try texting her again.
 
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Rayne

Member
Be patient.

No matter what, don't text her or even call. You'll look desperate and creepy to her. She'll either eventually wonder why you're not chasing her, or if she's not interested, she won't call back. Simple as that. If I'm interested in a guy, I won't wait too long.

Don't wait too long yourself, date someone else who will appreciate your precious time.
 
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Nancy

Member
Let her make the next move. If you don't hear from her by the end of the week, then forget it. You tried. That's all you can do. If you flat out ask her she may lie because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
 
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Bella

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Just be open with her. Ask her how she feels. Don't freak out or get emotional about it. Maybe she just didn't get your text. Try calling her.
 
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