Almost two months ago, i started attending a new church. Only 1 week into this new church, and i already got interested in a guy. For the past month, we have been getting to know each other and are really interested in starting a relationship together. We are both Christian, and we both want to honor God, and have a committment to him. We started to hang out very often, and we weren't sure if that was a good thing or not, we started to get really close, too fast. We have this insane chemistry, i can't stop thinking about him and he's told me he also cant stop thinking about me. We set ourself some boundaries and guidelines because we both want to do this the right way so it will work out in the long run!!! We only hang out in groups for now, and for the next couple weeks we are only going to see each other on sundays (at church, and we have a group hangout afterwards all day) and on wednesdays (at bible study). We also decided it would be a good idea to keep our hands to ourself for a couple months or more. The most we have done is 1 hug, and sometimes I rest my head on his shoulder.
I, as a christian, have never actually dated a christian guy before, so these guidelines are all new to me, and i find it very difficult!!! I think we're doing the right thing by taking it slow. Believe it or not, he already asked how i would feel about marriage. I'm worried that this "romance" is going to die as quickly as it started. I really dont want that, i'm very into him. Does everything here sound ok? are we taking the right pace? are we going tooooo slow? too fast?
I honestly have faith in this relationship, and even after knowing him for only a couple months, i could HONESTLY say that i would marry this man. He is that good to me. Is it weird that i can say that already? Are we too comfortable for it to work?
I, as a christian, have never actually dated a christian guy before, so these guidelines are all new to me, and i find it very difficult!!! I think we're doing the right thing by taking it slow. Believe it or not, he already asked how i would feel about marriage. I'm worried that this "romance" is going to die as quickly as it started. I really dont want that, i'm very into him. Does everything here sound ok? are we taking the right pace? are we going tooooo slow? too fast?
I honestly have faith in this relationship, and even after knowing him for only a couple months, i could HONESTLY say that i would marry this man. He is that good to me. Is it weird that i can say that already? Are we too comfortable for it to work?