Confused about boyfriend and his addiction...wisdom throw this way is much

[rhcpsurfer31]

appreicated.? My boyfriend is 41 and i'm 20. We first started dating through a friend that introduced us. We laughed and spent the day together at their house hanging out, and being with my friends whom i considered family. He'd come over stay the night with me, go to work the next morning, and then come back over maybe 3 or 4 days of the week whenever his friend and boss wouldn't need him to stay over night working. (all confirmed working nights by the way). Well a month or so later he asked me to move in with him and his two friends which have a 3 year old together. Well they're both addicted to Soma's and Pain killers badly. The guy takes atleast 10 and 10 in one set. She's not as bad due to the fact that she's got to take care of her daughter. Futhermore, when we first started dating, he only drank beer and not often at all. Everyone insisted that he's slowed down since he met me. (from being at the bars everynight to a beer or two a week). Now he's taking Soma's because he says that his back has been hurting due to working heavy machinery all day. He's become hateful, short temperd, mean and wanting to call me greedy for not giving him money for his addiction. Granted we live there with our friends, if we can even call them that (they're very sneaky and shistey), and don't pay rent but, i've bought food, cigarrettes (we all smoke, some more that others), anything you can think of. To include an important detail, we're staying in a motel due to the hurricane, paid for by FEMA. 5 people in a room with two beds, 1 bathroom and a mini - refridgerator, and one microwave and tv. I don't know what to do and i don't want to leave him.

 

[TPhi]

Whether you want to or not, you need to leave him. Now. For one thing, he's way too old for you. And besides, you need to wise up and do something with your life besides hang with these losers. You are ruining your life. Can't you see that?