I would really like to be friends again with this girl I hung out with in Junior High. We drifted apart over the years because of our interest, she was more into partying and I am a late bloomer(I am still a virgin). Over the last year and a half we have come to blows over my dating choices, I am mixed race and I prefer to date white men, I do not hate black men or anything like that I just prefer white guys. She is mixed but looks completely black, and she says it is a "personal insult" that I don't date black men. I have had the same issue with my father at some points, but it has been resolved(turns out it was just a big misunderstanding between me and my dad) her attitude has been awful to say the least and I now avoid speaking to her. It hurts that she can't see past that, I would never do this to her, yet she feels it is OK. In our last conversation she accused me of racism because I do not want to join/form an all-black student union. I feel that college is for education and not political activism, plus why should the race of my classmates be an issue? I want to be friends with her, but I have lately begun to avoid her completely.