EebleCaneeble
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Earlier I asked how I should deal with my feelings about a coworker (who will be resigning soon for the company).
She mentioned that she would be taking a week off before starting her next job, and when asked whether she would take a vacation during that time, she mentioned that she doesn't think so because she would only be going alone.
The conversation shortly led to an invitation of whether I would be interested in going on a vacation with her!!! I'm beside myself because I would in a heartbeat! She's attractive (EXTREMELY), and her personality is undeserving to anyone (who would be so lucky).
Is it wrong for me to act on my emotions, and go on a vacation just so that I could be with her??
I'm certain she's already in a relationship, and I am in one as well... but would going on this mini get away be cheating? Even if in separate rooms, etc.? We've built a very close friendship over the years working together, that we would eagerly some time with each other for companionship or listening ear.
Now, I've realized that I'm head over heels for this girl, but I've always known and accepted the fact that being with her is only a pipe dream.
What do you think? How would you handle this?
Please help... pls.
EC
She mentioned that she would be taking a week off before starting her next job, and when asked whether she would take a vacation during that time, she mentioned that she doesn't think so because she would only be going alone.
The conversation shortly led to an invitation of whether I would be interested in going on a vacation with her!!! I'm beside myself because I would in a heartbeat! She's attractive (EXTREMELY), and her personality is undeserving to anyone (who would be so lucky).
Is it wrong for me to act on my emotions, and go on a vacation just so that I could be with her??
I'm certain she's already in a relationship, and I am in one as well... but would going on this mini get away be cheating? Even if in separate rooms, etc.? We've built a very close friendship over the years working together, that we would eagerly some time with each other for companionship or listening ear.
Now, I've realized that I'm head over heels for this girl, but I've always known and accepted the fact that being with her is only a pipe dream.
What do you think? How would you handle this?
Please help... pls.
EC