Hi, obviously my dad loves both me and his girlfriend, but I get the impression that Im second best, which in my opinion shouldnt happen and actual family should always come first.
My dad goes to his girlfriends house 6 times a week and leaves me on my own for the whole night.
Im 16 and him leaving me on my own isnt the problem, its the fact that he will leave me whenever he has got the chance. And he sometimes will go to his gf's house if my older sister drops by.
One time, I got home late from school as I stayed to finish coursework and when I got home he sent a text to me instead of his girlfriend and one part said something like " I think I need to stay here tonight, but you know that I want to be with you - love you"
One time, in holiday, his girlfriend had a go at me for no reason at all (we were at a party and I was trying to get her to dance and she didnt want to) and my dad didnt defend me, but then one time I was saying that she didnt like me when she wasnt there and my dad quickly defended her by saying that it was my fault and that I embarras him!
What do you think I should do?
Sorry for the lengthy question, but I had to get this off my chest.
Any advice will be greatly apprieciated!
My dad goes to his girlfriends house 6 times a week and leaves me on my own for the whole night.
Im 16 and him leaving me on my own isnt the problem, its the fact that he will leave me whenever he has got the chance. And he sometimes will go to his gf's house if my older sister drops by.
One time, I got home late from school as I stayed to finish coursework and when I got home he sent a text to me instead of his girlfriend and one part said something like " I think I need to stay here tonight, but you know that I want to be with you - love you"
One time, in holiday, his girlfriend had a go at me for no reason at all (we were at a party and I was trying to get her to dance and she didnt want to) and my dad didnt defend me, but then one time I was saying that she didnt like me when she wasnt there and my dad quickly defended her by saying that it was my fault and that I embarras him!
What do you think I should do?
Sorry for the lengthy question, but I had to get this off my chest.
Any advice will be greatly apprieciated!