AlyssaMacey
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- Mar 21, 2009
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Last year I started to date when I was ready to let go of my marriage. It happened very quickly that I met this lovely guy and we have been together a year. Together is too strong word cause it is a long-distance relationship (1 hour flight). He is divorced and has 2 kids with his x, and their relationship is bad. There was not a good word said about his x (however she does sound mad). My boyfriend took his time (9 months) before introducing me to his kids and parents (which is a good thing). Our relationship is great - he is the most caring, kind man and my best friend. However, I can't keep wondering if we have a future. I am 36 now and it's natural I want to have a family. There is no sign of a plan, only talks about him going with me to my home country to meet parents (and about our future house). He says now he will buy a ticket later cause he has no money. To me this is an alarm bell and I think it's an excuse and I am starting to get worried if he is as serious as he says. What would a smart woman do? Thanks