...prefer no humor? Is it a common issue due to culture. I mean I want to date chinese women who are in Canada but I feel there is no humor whatsoever. any explanation? Thanks.
maybe where they are from it was all work and no play, no time for fun or to laugh. Could also be that they see certain things funny and you see certain things funny, but those aren't the same things. It could also be be because your jokes are risque or talk about the body. They will reject both of those.
I know a few chinese girls and generally its just a case of the humor doesn't translate over well. Its not that they don't have a sense of humor, its just well... Different.
Maybe Neil you do not have a sense of humor or you need to sharpen it up. I've dated lots of Chinese women and I find they have a great sense of humor! In fact they can get me laughing in no time. They have no trouble making fun of themselves and the ones I've dated, particularly in Canada are very quick on the uptake.
A young Chinese couple named the Wongs were expecting their first baby any day. Soon the young husband got a call from the hospital and was told his wife was about to deliver. He rushed over to the hospital and when he entered the room he could see his wife cuddling their little bundle of joy. The new father soon had a very perplexed look on his face but did not want to say anything.[the little baby didn't look like either the mother or the father!]. The nurse who was present asked the father what he might like to call his baby son. Awkwardly he said, "I shall name him Sum Ting Wong".
Try treating them as individuals.
When you say things as "why do Chinese women not XYZ" you're implying they all act and think alike.
I'm sure they can sense this about you and therefore they do not share your sense of humor because you treat them as things rather than human beings.
Ah so - may be you no spik Inglish velly well! You Numbah Ten when come to joking, when she li'e play aroun' you wan' tell laugh! Ha, ha - you funny! OK now?