funnybunnygrl
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- Apr 19, 2010
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sensitive issue.? (sex related)? My boyfriend and I decided that we were ready to have sex for the first time, but we had to keep quiet because my brothers were home. We could not do it on my bed because my bed squeaks so we decided to stand up. I bent over on a chair and he stayed standing then we began to have sex. After one minute of this went by his penis kept falling out and i realized it was because he no longer had an erection. I told him that it would not work because he wasn't hard and he said that maybe it wasn't the right time for us to be having sex. I begin to feel ashamed and hurt because I thought that he was not attracted to me in a sexual way, and I also thought that he was turned off because of the non traditional position I chose to be in for our first time. When we were going to sleep I tried to get him to talk about what happened and he said he was under a lot of stress and did not think we should discuss it any further. I went to sleep feeling very sad because our first sexual experience was such a disaster. The next day before he went home I tried to discuss it with him again telling him how I felt like it was all my fault, and explaining how I thought the position turned him off. He simply said that he didn't know why he lost his erection, and that we had nothing to discuss. Then right before he left he told me that he never wanted to talk about it again. When I went back inside my room I noticed that the condom we had used was sticking out of the trashcan. To prevent anyone from discovering it I decided to flush it down the toilet. When I saw the condom in the light I noticed that it was full of cum!! I felt relieved to know that he was indeed turned on by me, and that I had pleased him sexually, but I was mad that he lead me to believe that he had lost his erection when he really just ejaculated prematurely. what should I do?