Over the internet I met this girl who seemed real nice... she showed me what she looked like on cam and everything so yes it is a girl. We've been talking for a few days now, and what kills me is my personality mostly when talking to girls. See I always try to play the therapist subconsciously to them whenever there's a problem, and I think it gets a little annoying in my opinion. But yeah, I'm turning 15 in some months and she's 16, so we're not far apart in age.
But yeah anyways, she has some problems in her life, and I've been trying to talk to her about them and help her in any way but it seems every time she just shrugs it off a little, though I know she sees what I'm saying. So anyways, just the the other night she was on stickam and I was talking to her in private messages about what I had figured out about her... I even asked her if she wanted my constructive criticism and she said sure. I was talking to her for a little bit, got answers like 'I knowwww' and laughing. So finally I said I wasn't really trying to joke and that I was trying to help her with what I was saying... she never answered me for a half an hour which left me sitting there most of the time while she spoke to others on stickam and giggled and laughed.
So, like I thought most would, I got a little annoyed... it showed a lack of respect to me when I was trying to be nice. So I said something similar to 'See, this is your problem, I am trying to be the nice guy here and you're looking past me like I'm not here at all' and left the room... so the questions are, first for the women, do you think that I left on a bad note and should say sorry? And does anyone think I was a bit right in my own way to be a bit annoyed while trying to help her?
But yeah anyways, she has some problems in her life, and I've been trying to talk to her about them and help her in any way but it seems every time she just shrugs it off a little, though I know she sees what I'm saying. So anyways, just the the other night she was on stickam and I was talking to her in private messages about what I had figured out about her... I even asked her if she wanted my constructive criticism and she said sure. I was talking to her for a little bit, got answers like 'I knowwww' and laughing. So finally I said I wasn't really trying to joke and that I was trying to help her with what I was saying... she never answered me for a half an hour which left me sitting there most of the time while she spoke to others on stickam and giggled and laughed.
So, like I thought most would, I got a little annoyed... it showed a lack of respect to me when I was trying to be nice. So I said something similar to 'See, this is your problem, I am trying to be the nice guy here and you're looking past me like I'm not here at all' and left the room... so the questions are, first for the women, do you think that I left on a bad note and should say sorry? And does anyone think I was a bit right in my own way to be a bit annoyed while trying to help her?