Do I have to laugh at a guy's jokes for him to take notice of me?

Loves1

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Sometimes I wonder if I'm cursed lol! All the guys I'm interested in, never seem to take interest in me, and all the guys I'm NOT interested in, are always running after me...it's really putting me down. For once, I want to like somebody and have that returned.

I've also realised a pattern. Whenever I'm with friends and a 'potential' is there, the guy will always normally seek out one of my friends that laughs at his jokes the most.

I don't mean to boast at all, but I'm told often that I'm attractive...so if my supposedly attractive looks are not going for me, what will? I'm witty, sarcastic and sometimes dry...I'm not the type to laugh at everything a guy has to say, and I'm challenging and intellectual. In response to a guy's joke, I will respond with something witty/sarcastic instead of laughing my head off like other girls...

What should I do? Should I lighten up and laugh more instead? Even if something sarcastic itches at my mouth? Do guys always need an ego boost? Sigh.
 
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