Do I tell my future roommates that I'm a lesbian?

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I plan to move in with 3 other 20-30ish professional women. I didn't plan to tell them I'm gay as I don't feel it's that important to make a point of bringing it up... but should I?
I'm technically still married to my husband and not really out. But I need this room because we're separated... because I'm gay... So I guess it'll come out eventually. And I am talking to a woman now who I will probably end up dating and bringing around.
 
yeah because its good to know if any of them have a problem with it before you move in.
 
that might be a good idea, just in case one of them have a problem with that, you will be aware of it. instead of coming home with another women and getting into a fight or being accused of hiding something, or anything like that. telling them ahead of time might prevent drama and unwanted fighting
 
It shouldn't matter, but imagine how they'll feel if they've been walking out of the bathroom every day in nothing but a towel for six months and you just brought home your girlfriend. They should get a general heads-up just so they can make themselves comfortable in how they act around you, because chances are, they will find out eventually, and if they've been doing anything in front of you based on the assumption that you were straight, they're going to be pretty pissed at you. Some women don't care if they're naked in front of their straight female or gay male friends, but they'll beat the sh*t out of you if you forget to mention you were actually interested all that time.
 
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