I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years. I'm 22 and she's 21. Ever since our first date, she has never wished for us to talk about her life or for me to ask her questions. She also never attempts to make any type of conversation when we're together.
To work around this, I decided from very early on in our relationship to do the majority of the talking and only talk about mutual topics like movies or music and just talk about what I'm doing in my life. For the first couple of months after we got together, I'd try and get to know her better or show an interest in her life, because I was genuinely interested. I'd ask about her very occasionally. When I did, she'd get moody, sulky and even violently angry.
For the past week, she's had some extremely important university exams which she's been studying for over the last 3 months. I asked her how one of the exams went and she replied "Come on Jake, you were doing so well and now you've just had to wreck things by wanting to ask about my exam". She does this with other questions which I need to ask her too.
Do the majority of women out there hate their boyfriend taking an interest in and sharing their lives?
To work around this, I decided from very early on in our relationship to do the majority of the talking and only talk about mutual topics like movies or music and just talk about what I'm doing in my life. For the first couple of months after we got together, I'd try and get to know her better or show an interest in her life, because I was genuinely interested. I'd ask about her very occasionally. When I did, she'd get moody, sulky and even violently angry.
For the past week, she's had some extremely important university exams which she's been studying for over the last 3 months. I asked her how one of the exams went and she replied "Come on Jake, you were doing so well and now you've just had to wreck things by wanting to ask about my exam". She does this with other questions which I need to ask her too.
Do the majority of women out there hate their boyfriend taking an interest in and sharing their lives?