...simultaneously take on single motherhood? Im in a very tough situation where I have just decided to keep a baby from a relationship that was failing. Im extremely upset about this as the father of my son came to me 8 days before the expected birth and told me we had no future. He is 36 and I am 31. I am not in my home country and had a family member come and help me with the birth. Now that she is gone, I'm extremely lonely and need to break it off with him, though he insists on coming around. Im sure I could tell him to go away and he would do it, but I know that emotionally it would hurt like hell. I don't know what to do. Im so scared that he is just moving on with his life and mine literally stops because I have his baby. This seems like a nightmare and I am afraid no one will ever want to date someone who has a child and yet I feel I deserve to be loved too. Please advise...