Does he like me or is he plain not interested in me?

dimepeacee

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My friend called me, we chatted for an hour & 18 minutes, then I told him I like him through the phone, he stayed quiet for a bit & then I said "if you like me as a friend is okay just let me know" and he didn't say anything, wish he could just tell me yes or no and make it clear for me but maybe the silence was a nice way of saying "no i'm not interested" hm idk =|

We're good childhood friends (we're not bestfriends). OK i'm going to post the following things he does to me:

• laughs at what i say (sometimes things that aren't even that funny)
• i caught him staring at me many times & we would hold eye contact
• he asked for my number
• always asks me if i have a boyfriend
• calls me for random reasons, just to say hi (not constantly though)
• he changed for me (the way he dresses, he asked me what type of guys i'm into)
• texts me late around 1am-5am (he comes home late most of the time, NOT a bootycall/text it's casual conversation)
• he seems genuinely interested in what i have to say then asks me questions after
• he remembers little things that i've talked about before a long time ago, and mentions them later
• impresses me, shows off
• asked me what i like, anything in particular
• tried to get me jealous (he sat down & started talkin to this girl that was sitting at my table, once i left, he left as well lol)
• he asked my brother about me and if i had a boyfriend
• hugs me when he see's me
• he teases me about HAVING a boyfriend when in reality he knows that i don't have one, for instance he'll be like "oh yeah, we were talking about your boyfriend" and i would scream out "i don't have a boyfriend!" but in a playing way)
• he was testing me on what type of girl i am (good girl or bad girl, he's seeing that i'm a good girl but not a goody-goody either and he likes that, he said it's a good thing i'm that way)

PS: he's NOT the shy type, but i guess he will get shy in some cases.

I need help if he likes me or something, I'm not gonna bring that subject up anytime soon cause that'll seem desperate.

THANK YOU for taking the time to read & for tha responses! ^_^
 
He likes you. He just can't say it. It's a difficult thing to say, so don't push it. Just ask him to spend some time with you. Don't make a big deal out of it. Give him a peck on the cheek next time you're saying good bye. Eventually he'll work up the courage to kiss you for real. Be patient, maybe this is the first romance, and he's nervous. Just don't push it, and be patient.
 
Stop picking clues.If he says he don't know just believe that.
Though it looks obivious that he likes you but don't start dreaming and expecting.
If he's interested he'll let you know once he figure out himself.
Till then DONT pursue him and just be friends..

p.s.
Start going out with a guy and see if he is jealous.
this may spped up the process of his self realization...
 
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