We have been going out for about 18 months, and he doesn't want to come out to anybody I have to tell everyone he is my partner. He won;t move in with me but wants to buy a place together and I think so he can get on the property ladder. He emotionally blackmails me but saying if I don;'t get him a glass of water he is going home or won't have sex with me. He tells me what is mine is his but what is his is his only. He shows no affection and one of my friends told me that he one day they were out and he said 'are you happy to seeing your boyfriend and he replied'don't say that it doesn't sound right!!
He tells me loves me but his actions don't match his words.
he is so uncomfortable with his sexuality. he often shuts me out and pushes me away and doesn't care about me. everything is on his terms. He had punched me before on the arm when I have tried to hug him.
He goes out and rather than look at men he looks women.. I have noticed this too. I don't know how to tell with him. I am scared of him at times for his reaction with me. 2 weeks ago is all I said was 'about future and he burst into tears and said I was pressurising him too much.
What can I do with him?
He tells me loves me but his actions don't match his words.
he is so uncomfortable with his sexuality. he often shuts me out and pushes me away and doesn't care about me. everything is on his terms. He had punched me before on the arm when I have tried to hug him.
He goes out and rather than look at men he looks women.. I have noticed this too. I don't know how to tell with him. I am scared of him at times for his reaction with me. 2 weeks ago is all I said was 'about future and he burst into tears and said I was pressurising him too much.
What can I do with him?