Don't want any sort of relationship?

Kay

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What does it mean when you are attracted to someone but don't want any sort of relationship at all (with anyone). I'm not asexual... I'm not fond of being touched by others (I am still a virgin btw, I meant like being hugged etc. )but it doesn't turn me off and I definitely have a sex drive. People are always asking me when I'm going to start dating, who I'm dating, etc. They look at me like I'm crazy when I say I have no desire for any of that. My mom will point out a cute guy and be like "Heeey, he's cute, look!" and they will be but I'm just not interested. I have even passed on boy watching because it just does not appeal to me.

When I was younger I had a crush every year in elementary starting in first grade. The whole crushes thing lasted until I was about sixteen and I even had my first boyfriend then. I liked him well enough but the few times we kissed I found it kind of repulsive (it was just a peck on the lips type of thing too) and broke up with him after two months because I lost interest.

Since then my sex drive has gone up but my interest in others has gone way down (I'm nineteen now). Why is that?
 
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